Help convincing wife

[Bouree]

I am facinated with the Doberman breed and really want one. However, I have to sell the Mrs. first.

I have done a lot of research and based on statistics, dobes get a much worse rap than they deserve. So, I have been asking my wife if statistically "more dangerous" breeds would be ok with her, and so far she is ok with most. She just has no idea I have an interest in dobes, so I am trying to build my case.

I know her main argument is going to be the kids: 9, 6, and 4 years of age. I know from research that the dogs are great with kids, but I am worried about their friends coming over. Does anyone have experience with this type of situation? How do I talk to my wife about that?

We have an existing dog who is very bored. However, it is a Shih Tsu. Will a Dobe get along with this breed? Does anyone on here have experience with a similar arrangement?

Any other advice you can offer would be much appreciated.

[VonDoom]

This should do it. :p

[VonDoom]

ok seriously my opinion is although Dobermans are great Dogs They are also vary protective of there familys. Kids rough housing and just being kids could eventually end up being a disaster. I also believe it can be done with diligent owners. just remember early socialiation is the key. you must socialize this puppy everyday to all types of situations esp children playing and makeing a ruckess, and still be vary aware at all times. also be sure your pup comes from a reputable breeder let them know your circumstances so that they can pick the puppy the suits your family needs. good luck and if all esle fails get the diamond. lol

[VonDoom]

What ever sex your other dog is be sure to get the oppisite sex doberman. Doberman Males are infamous for Male on Male aggression.

[Bouree]

Our Shih Tsu is a female. Do you think two females would be ok together, especially if they are spayed or neutered (I forget which one you use for females).

[Rich S]

There are lots of great reasons to sell her on a dobe.

Dobermans are loyal, graceful, athletic, intelligent, loving and protective. This dog has all the qualities of other guarding breeds but also possesses a number of unique features that sets him apart from them.

One thing is for sure, this dog demands attention, kindness, precise and consistent training and masses of love. Do not enter into this partnership thinking that the dog will fit in with your life when the opposite is true.

It is said that you never "own" a Doberman, rather the Doberman owns you!

This is a dog that will demand to be at the center of family life. They form strong bonds with their owners and cannot be shut away in a kennel or denied access to family relationships.

[lab1dobie]

Everything Rich said is true! Socialization early and good training are the keys to a happy and friendly dobe. You will not find a better "lap dog" anywhere! And they are good with kids who know when enough is enough when playing with their canine buddy.

[Big Red Machine]

All you need to do is take her to a breeder that has Dobe puppies. One look and it will be a done deal.

[RedDobeLuvr]

I don't think you should have any fears with your kids if you get your Doberman as a pup and raise it with consistant training and teach the kids about helping with the dog as well. My mind-set when raising my Dobe pup was: do not allow her to do anything you don't want him/her to do when she is grown. And BE CONSISTANT, all of your family members should be on the same page when training your pup. I also agree with taking your wife to see the Dobe pups... they sell themselves. ;)

[VonDoom]

All great advice Dobes love there familys, My concern are when neighborhood kids or young relatives come to visit, Rough housing is not somthing dobermans tollerate well.

[Kane08]

I have a very very busy home..I have 9 siblings and we are all very close. I also have around 30 nieces and nephews..So the point is..Kane is very protective of us and doesnt really like to "play" with the kids..He just kinda watches but I dont leave them alone with him because I know he doesnt like to be poked and prodded. He is very close to us and our kids (loves to play) but not so much outsiders. Sheeba (lab) on the other hand loves everyone and gives the kids there puppy fix..You can do anything you want to her and she is ok, she just wants to play!